tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2038589108083401807.post3899062717955665338..comments2023-08-22T06:04:03.368-07:00Comments on my cyber house rules: Damned if You Do, Damned if You Do (Because You Said No)Marie Nicolehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02349867233197745366noreply@blogger.comBlogger25125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2038589108083401807.post-68211613660803168952011-02-08T16:20:29.980-08:002011-02-08T16:20:29.980-08:00Either way, sweetie, things are gonna change again...Either way, sweetie, things are gonna change again.<br /><br />I hope you find your "Happy" one way or the other.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08810246558284580306noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2038589108083401807.post-53393426778362503182011-02-08T11:13:43.451-08:002011-02-08T11:13:43.451-08:00*****CHEAP*****DRINK*****
Sigh, it's like I di...*****CHEAP*****DRINK*****<br />Sigh, it's like I did that especially for you!A Vapid Blondehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12979004194985896542noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2038589108083401807.post-16389307768697069902011-02-08T11:12:37.797-08:002011-02-08T11:12:37.797-08:00Boo. I hate turmoil. I am sorry you are going thr...Boo. I hate turmoil. I am sorry you are going through that.<br /><br />Take care. BTW, I am sitting next to a water cooler. Alone.<br /><br />;-) We could fill it with cheep pineapple infused vodka and then drinking hot or cold.A Vapid Blondehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12979004194985896542noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2038589108083401807.post-39028444400469155492011-02-08T10:38:20.578-08:002011-02-08T10:38:20.578-08:00HOW am I only just now seeing this?!
I don't k...HOW am I only just now seeing this?!<br />I don't know what to say honey. I'm here if you need me - you have my number. Call, text, whatever.<br /><br />Love you<br /><br />HUGSMileyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16425833336328499166noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2038589108083401807.post-27160867092269986002011-02-08T10:26:23.350-08:002011-02-08T10:26:23.350-08:00((((((( HUGS )))))))
To you sweet Nikki. Im sorry...((((((( HUGS ))))))) <br />To you sweet Nikki. Im sorry Ive not been keeping up ( had my head up my own ass dealing with shit ) But I hope all the best for you. Talk to your other 50% Maybe you can find an acceptable compromise. Remember.. everything happens for a reason.. but sometimes the reason takes a while to reveal its self. <br />Im here if you need me.nachohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15569223180072244956noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2038589108083401807.post-62780585998777922032011-02-08T09:49:15.435-08:002011-02-08T09:49:15.435-08:00Girl, you gotta do what makes YOU happy. Know this...Girl, you gotta do what makes YOU happy. Know this though- there is no "normal" life. The things you crave are just that- things. And it's hard to have and keep friends anywhere. If you lived in my town, you would chew your arm off to escape and I'd stow away on your boat and we could have coffee and gossip along the way.Laurahttp://www.fetchmyflyingmonkeys.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2038589108083401807.post-72112879296654005152011-02-08T09:09:22.289-08:002011-02-08T09:09:22.289-08:00Keep the faith my dear.
We are all here to send y...Keep the faith my dear.<br /><br />We are all here to send you mental hugs.Kev D.https://www.blogger.com/profile/13557162668726460610noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2038589108083401807.post-59186772754526761812011-02-08T07:27:39.281-08:002011-02-08T07:27:39.281-08:00i am at my fork in the road too... i can so relate...i am at my fork in the road too... i can so related to everything you are saying... i hope it all works out the way you would like, but remember that God has an ultimate plan and it always wins out and is always better than what our human eyes can see :-)Overthinking Mamahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13381210818227741087noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2038589108083401807.post-28825848066546892342011-02-08T04:33:05.219-08:002011-02-08T04:33:05.219-08:00I had to think for a few minutes before I was able...I had to think for a few minutes before I was able to form this comment. <br /><br />Normal is not what anyone expects. <br /><br />For example, I am 28, have 1 girlfriend I talk to on a regular basis, I'm in a long term relationship and all I like to do is sit at home and do my own thing. We're not social butterflies, our friends are Netflix & Xbox. <br /><br />I fantasize about those nights out with friends and getting crazy, but on the rare occasion I participate in that, I find it exhausting and a waste of my time. <br /><br />It took a lot to accept that what normal and fun for me = boring and lame for others. Everyone is different. <br /><br />Perhaps you need "normal" for just a while. After your "normal" period of dishes and gossip and coffee, you may want that meandering year! Maybe you'll find out that your own definition of Normal is in fact, bouncing around and seeing the world and not being tied down. <br /><br />You should explain you want the opportunity to try out your own Normal Fantasy.<br /><br />Good luck finding your normal!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2038589108083401807.post-65089770796485966312011-02-07T20:00:14.870-08:002011-02-07T20:00:14.870-08:00Hang in there - you DO have friends right here in ...Hang in there - you DO have friends right here in the blogosphere dear.Dr. Cynicismhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15685005782516868520noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2038589108083401807.post-69517265153054184112011-02-07T18:57:30.549-08:002011-02-07T18:57:30.549-08:00ugh this is a major crossroads. trust your gut and...ugh this is a major crossroads. trust your gut and heart. do what feels right and not what you feel you should do or have to do. if it feels wrong, it is. and yes, this sentence starts with a conjuction because hell yes we will follow you wherever you go. <br />hugs and virtual drinks. ♥pattypunkerhttp://www.pattypunker.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2038589108083401807.post-50222122277522767022011-02-07T17:44:38.476-08:002011-02-07T17:44:38.476-08:00Darling Nikki,
I agree with The Minuteman's Wi...Darling Nikki,<br />I agree with The Minuteman's Wife. Bloggy buddies are with you ALL the time, whether you want us or not. <br /><br />Glad to see your latest update that plans are on hold for a while. <br /><br />XOXOBobby Allanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17362990178566295070noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2038589108083401807.post-75349652972672687762011-02-07T16:51:31.163-08:002011-02-07T16:51:31.163-08:00You guys are amazing! let me know when I can come ...You guys are amazing! let me know when I can come by and kidnap you guys! I did happen to just have a chit-chat with that certain 50% of the other people in my relationship, and Mexico is or may be put off for now. Certain people may have realized he or she was not ready for such an adventure! Ooof! Off the hook for now!Marie Nicolehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02349867233197745366noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2038589108083401807.post-89195512947493197702011-02-07T15:32:43.082-08:002011-02-07T15:32:43.082-08:00ugh. ok it sucks. is there any room for compromise...ugh. ok it sucks. is there any room for compromise? can you go with the expectation of stabilty after? could it be that the trip is set after a stable time? sorry just questions...and follow your heart.Brian Millerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00722940075884718007noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2038589108083401807.post-87036373609110539932011-02-07T15:02:41.658-08:002011-02-07T15:02:41.658-08:00I'm so sorry you feel you have to make a choic...I'm so sorry you feel you have to make a choice. I love taking off on long trips...and I love having a home to return to when I get homesick. Wish you could find a way to have both.Jenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12573262524755768643noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2038589108083401807.post-46169470998169080152011-02-07T14:13:30.411-08:002011-02-07T14:13:30.411-08:00you sound like you could use a hug....."HUG&q...you sound like you could use a hug....."HUG"Rebeccahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10213055916162799647noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2038589108083401807.post-1789073068250818442011-02-07T13:50:58.187-08:002011-02-07T13:50:58.187-08:00You guys are so wonderful. Why can't we all li...You guys are so wonderful. Why can't we all live in the same neighborhood so we can all hook up for a beer? Fuck that coffee I talked about. I need something stronger.<br /><br />Sadly this guy is hard headed. Once his mind is made up nothing can be done. He's not the type to sit and have a good long heart to heart talk with. I really have 2 choices: go with him or not. It's the what happens if I don't go that has me wondering all sorts of things (and those are the thoughts guilty of the sobbering and hikkuping)<br /><br />Thanks though. I really appreciate your friendship even if we can't share a beer together...Marie Nicolehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02349867233197745366noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2038589108083401807.post-14642230756296526432011-02-07T13:25:31.309-08:002011-02-07T13:25:31.309-08:00wow, this took me a minute to know what I wanted t...wow, this took me a minute to know what I wanted to write. I completely know what you are going through. Not your exact circumstances, but my 3 year relationship just ended, because we had nothing in common and wanted completely different things out of life. I hope it works out, I really do.. but, if you two decide it would be best to be apart, just know that you will be okay, you are an awesome person. Hugs and lots of love. (and email me if you need to talk about anything amberlashell@gmail.com)<br /><br /><a href="http://www.amberlashell.com/2011/02/motivation-monday.html" rel="nofollow">amberlashell.com</a>AmberLaShellhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02454089869892409470noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2038589108083401807.post-32913081122025484602011-02-07T12:41:46.024-08:002011-02-07T12:41:46.024-08:00After re-reading this two times, I think you two n...After re-reading this two times, I think you two need to talk. And if talking don't work, hit him over the head until it does work. <br /><br />I am praying for you guys.Oilfield Trashhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00527580828815598952noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2038589108083401807.post-35379783715179029682011-02-07T12:39:02.443-08:002011-02-07T12:39:02.443-08:00And here I am craving a more adventure in my life....And here I am craving a more adventure in my life. (See I started my sentence with a conjunction too). I won't lie to you. Those are some hard choices to make. All I can say is that you two should sit and really weigh the pros & cons and be open minded to both sides.<br /><br />Hope it works out.<br /><br />Your friend.Vinny Chttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10097265589198549734noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2038589108083401807.post-69738260779074895032011-02-07T12:29:44.104-08:002011-02-07T12:29:44.104-08:00you are certainly in a quandry. I have no answers,...you are certainly in a quandry. I have no answers, but living on a boat which is a "vehicle" is bound to lead to travel...<br /><br />Every fork in the road<br />Leads to yet another fork<br />Happiness waits on all of them<br /><br />snatch the pebble from my hand<br /><br />I wish you happiness in whatever you decide!Pat Tilletthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17699973774273291205noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2038589108083401807.post-76826447214590424462011-02-07T12:06:54.879-08:002011-02-07T12:06:54.879-08:00Hugs. At least you have him.
And that picture ma...Hugs. At least you have him. <br /><br />And that picture made me really sad.Oilfield Trashhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00527580828815598952noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2038589108083401807.post-77294291589793364372011-02-07T11:02:09.927-08:002011-02-07T11:02:09.927-08:00Pardon me sweets but there were a couple glaring m...Pardon me sweets but there were a couple glaring mistakes in this post that need correcting. <br /><br />You do have friends. We're always right here waiting to lend you our support. The best part about us online bloggy friends is you can take us wherever the road takes you!! <br /><br />AND Stephen King starts sentences with conjunctions All the time. So if he can do it and get away with then so can't we!! Why does he need to be so special??Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2038589108083401807.post-66294852637894673212011-02-07T10:10:22.812-08:002011-02-07T10:10:22.812-08:00I hurt for you reading this. Big hugs and loves f...I hurt for you reading this. Big hugs and loves for you. Want to shack with me in the ugliest place on earth at the moment? We can at least go get coffee and chat and then blog about it.Edie B. Kuhlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13153544358143794077noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2038589108083401807.post-72870768694739233692011-02-07T09:51:04.188-08:002011-02-07T09:51:04.188-08:00"hugs""hugs"Not the Herohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01560658711479024512noreply@blogger.com